Tuesday, August 18, 2009

I am now a Daddy

From Birth


Yesterday was the most amazing day of my life, I became a father. At 8:50 am Louisa and I became parents to a baby girl. Weighing 6 lbs 15 oz, Bethany Priscilla Pang Vautour came into this world and stole our hearts. You always hear how amazing it is to witness the birth of your child, but there is no preparing for the emotion of it actually happening.

Everything went just fine. baby is healthy and both her and mom are doing fine. I on the other hand am in a lot of pain. I slept at the hospital last night so I could be there to help Louisa with the baby. I slept on a cot and when I first woke up this morning I was fine. But after breakfast I was helping Louisa with breast feeding and somehow I pulled a muscle in my lower back.

I was on so much pain. I couldn't sit up straight or stand up straight. When the nurse came into the room she looked at me and said "Are you ok?". "No" I said" "what is wrong?" "I can't move". They took me down to the Emergency Room. Turns out I pulled a muscle and have to take Advil and some prescription anti-inflammatory pills for a week. The worst part is the doctor told me not to lift anything. That includes taking the baby home in her car seat and the bags. And then to literally add insult to injury she said "People will think you are just a jerk making your wife carry everything"

I was very upset that I got hurt and this limits what I can do to help Louisa for the next week or so. We don't have any family in Ottawa which makes it a bit of a tougher pill to swallow. Luckily Louisa's mom is visiting for a while to help out. I will be adding the hospital bracelet that they game me in the Emergency Room to Bethany's baby book. I am sure this will make for a humorous story 10 years from now.

I came home to shower and upload some pictures from the hospital. I will be heading back to the hospital soon. Not sure if I will be sleeping there or coming back here tonight. Will figure that out later. I want to be there as much as I can but not if I am just in the way.

Monday, August 10, 2009

One week from now I will be a Dad!

Wow two posts in two days! Louisa and I found out today that we will be parents in one week from now. We have a C-section scheduled for Monday August 17th. Just one week to go. Wow!

Sunday, August 9, 2009

How to not impress your Mother-in-law

Yea I know it has been a long time since I have posted any new blog posts. There have been many things that I wanted to post but never seemed to get around to it. Let me tell you a little story and then I will provide an update on what is going on in my life.

So my Mother-in-law is visiting and tonight I was going to BBQ some salmon on a cedar plank. Everything is going fine, I soaked the plank for 6 hours in preparation. I don't think she has ever had salmon cooked on a cedar plank and she was interested to see what I was doing. I was proud of myself and hoping she was a bit impressed with my cooking skills. Once the salmon was cooked I asked Louisa for an oven mitt so I could bring the salmon inside. Well I underestimated how hot the plank would be even though I was wearing an over mitt. After a few steps away from the BBQ it was starting to burn my hand so I attempted to place it back down on the BBQ. The salmon fillet slid right off and onto the ground with a big splat! I was very upset at myself and embarrassed at what I had done.

I was hungry as a bear as I had not eaten much all day and it was a little later than when we normally eat. Here I just ruined our main course. Fortunately there was still another half of a fillet left because we bought it at Costco. So Louisa's mom cooked that half in the oven. So it wasn't a total loss but I was so mad at myself.

Other than that things are good. Baby Bethany is due to come out in a few weeks. Can't wait to meet her. Louisa and I have done everything we can to prepare. Louisa has read countless books, we took the prenatal classes, went to a breast feeding seminar and even a cloth diaper consultation. The room is ready and all the baby clothes have been washed.

I am thrilled to become a dad. It is something that I have been looking forward to since I was probably a teenager. Not that I wanted to become a teenage dad, just that I knew that I wanted to be a father one day. It is such an exciting time right now. As I am sure any parent will know just knowing that you will become a parent you start to look at things differently.

I have always been a big music buff. I have tone of CD's and MP3's, all genres of music. Now when I listen to a song I am like "Oh I never realized that song had swear words in it" and I remove it from my playlists so I don't expose Bethany to it. I have even started a playlist for her with children's songs.

The summer is coming to a close soon which means all the activities will be starting up again. I have a meeting on Tuesday for the Knights of Columbus to start our fall planning and I will also be holding a Group Committee meeting for scouts to ramp up for the fall. Granted with Bethany coming I won't be able to do as much for the first couple of months. It will be interesting to see if I can manage to keep the right balance. One thing is clear to me, Louisa and Bethany have to come first.

I will try to post more often, if I can find time. I am sure I will have tons of things to blog about.

Monday, May 18, 2009

1 Year Wedding Anniversary

This past weekend marked Louisa and my one year wedding anniversary. And it was a pretty darn good weekend if I do say so myself. To kick things off we attended the wedding of friends of ours on Saturday. Same weekend (1 year later), same church, same time, even same priest. It was a bit surreal. It seems like it was just yesterday that we were the ones standing at the alter.

Next on our agenda was an overnight get away to Prince Edward County. When we went to drop Bee Bee off at the dog sitter there was no sign of her. After some quick thinking and thanks to the kindness of Barry and Annette we dropped Bee Bee off at Barry and Annette's house and we were on our way.

Since we didn't have any real time line we decided to stop off at Merrickville for Breakfast. Once we made it to Picton we spent some time walking through the shops on the main drag before checking in to our sleeping quarters.

Louisa had booked us a room at the Huff Estates Winery. We had a little trouble locating it though. We had printed off maps and directions but they were lost in the wind at a service station. We turned to the GPS and for once it failed us. It sent us on a wild goose chase and we became lost. Eventually we found our way and made it to the estate.

Before heading back to Ottawa we went for a nice romantic walk on the beach at Sandbanks Provincial Park. We also found a great bakery where we bought some fresh made bread and donuts and a pie.

It was a great trip. Very relaxing. It will also be the last trip that we will be able to go on before the baby comes. Next time we go somewhere we will have so much stuff to bring. This trip we only brought one carry on size suitcase between the two of us.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Update

I haven't written a blog entry in a while so I thought I would give an update on what is new.

Only a few days more before we get the new car. I am so excited. We are buying a red 2010 Toyota Matrix. So now we will have two vehicles which will be important once the baby comes and Louisa is on maternity leave. Plus when I have my meetings and activities for Scouts or Knights of Columbus I won't have to worry if Louisa needs the car.

Louisa and I have been talking about getting a filing cabinet for the basement. I have so many papers that it doesn't take long for the basement to look all messy. I am currently working with a 'pile' system. One pile for Scouting stuff, one for the Knights of Columbus, etc. A filing cabinet sure will be helpful.

My boss will be out of the office all week. He is going down to Las Vegas for a Trade Show. Originally I was supposed to go as well but that was before the company started to cut down on their travel budgets. Assistant Buyers are no longer eligible for International travel. Oh well.

I will be recertifing my first aid this week through work. Which is very convenient because my certification is due for renewal. The last time was paid for by my previous employer and now Costco will be paying.

Louisa is doing well with the pregnancy. She is either very happy and laughing or in discomfort due to her changing body. I want to celebrate Mothers Day but she doesn't seem to be big on the idea. She says she isn't a mother yet. Plus our wedding anniversary is the next weekend. We are planning on a overnighter a couple hours away to celebrate.

Monday, March 2, 2009

Top 5 signs you are anal-retentive

1. You keep large redundant amounts of all your sundries such as laundry detergent so that you never risk running out.

2. You don’t just sort the money in your wallet by $1, $5, $10, or $20, but also sort the bills by wear-and-tear so that you get rid of the bills in the worst shape first.

3. You look up anal-retentive to see whether it needs a hyphen.

4. You don’t just keep a grocery list, you micro-optimize order of the items on the grocery list so that you only make one pass through the grocery store.

5. After a power outage or when Daylight Savings Time starts or ends, you feel the need to set all your clocks to the same minute and second.

6. It really irritates you when someone says a list has 5 items and you count six.

(by Matt Cutts - http://www.mattcutts.com/blog/top-5-signs-you-are-anal-retentive/)

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Camp No'Chimik

 

This weekend I went winter camping at Camp No'Chimick with the venturers. It had been a while since I had been winter camping and I was looking forward to it. Camp No'Chimik is not far from home, just a 15 minute drive. We went out Friday night. There were 8 of us spending the night Friday and two more joined us on Saturday and spent Saturday Night.

This was my firt time going to Camp No'Chimick, what a great place. It is actually private property but the owner has been letting scouts use the area for camping for years. There is one small cabin with a wood stove there, a flagpole in a clearing and a bunch of groups have created permenant camp sites in the surrounding area.

Since we didn't arrive until late Friday night we spent the first night in the cabin. Us two adults slept downstairs and we had 4 Venturers and 2 rovers sleeping up in the attick. The cabin is very basic yet very functional. I didn't measure it but I would estimate 15 feet by 15 feet at the most. There is no floor, just stones and dirt. There was an old wood stove in the middle of the room to keep everyone warm. There were two benches along the two side walls that were wide enough to sleep on. The space under the benches served as storage for wood for the stove. There was a table attached to the back wall and teo folding tables as well. The ladder to the attick was beside the door. There were lines surrounding the stove to hang and dry wet clothes and plenty of naile for hanging jackets and other articles. The Attick was large enough that you could sleep 8 people comfortably and there was room on the benches for four more.

So Friday night we didn't have time for much but we did play their favorite game Whistle in a bucket. Basically two people go and hide a bucket with a whistle inside in the woods. Now remember it is night time so it is dark. The rest of the people have to find the bucket and blow the whistle without being caught. If the two people guarding the bucket beam them with a flashlight they have to go back to home base and start again. I didn't see the apeal of the game but once you get into it it can be a lot of fun.

Saturday morning I was the first one up. I managed to get myself changed and put together before anyone else got up. Brady was the first Venturer up and at 'em so he decided to get a start on breakfast. We had bought pre-cooked bacon so all that had to be done was heat it up. I suggested that since they come packaged in a plastic bag he just place the bag in a pot of hot water to heat up. That way there there wouldn't be any mess, no dishes to clean. Brady didn't take my advise and put them in a frying pan and placed it on the wood stove. By the time the rest of the food was ready that bacon was burnt to a crisp. They had some-what of success with the eggs and the sausages turned out fine. Just a typical breakfast at camp.

The morning was spent mostly with preparing their snow shelters for Saturday night. The original plan was to build quinzies but that never happened. Brady wanted to make a lean-to but eventually abandoned that idea. Jake and Hunter salvaged the remains of a snow trench that was left from a previous group and made a nice looking shelter rather quickly. Francesca and Emma decided to go with a snow trench as well but they wanted to start from scratch. It took more time but they pulled off a great shelter. Brady eventaully follwed Hunter and Jakes lead and salvaged one of the snow trenches that was left from the previous group. Adrian decided to join him and when I found out Andy was going to sleep in the cabin that meant I was on my own so I resigned to sleep in the cabin as well.

For lunch we had hot dogs cooked over the fire on sticks and we had some chicken noodle soup. After lunch the owner of the property came to visit with his chainsaw and cut up some fallen trees and our group transported and piled outside the cabin for the next group that would come to use the camp. A little later we all went on an exhausting hike. I am sure glad I rented those snow shoes.

Supper was easy. Emma's mom had made us boil-in-a-bag chili. You take milk bags, cut the top off and wash them out. That you fill them with chili, soup , or whatever you want and seal closed. Freeze them and take with you when you go winter camping. Just boil a large pot of water and place the bags in the pot to unthaw and heat. You eat right out of the bag and there is no mess. You can either burn the bag or place in the garbage.

of course after supper it was more whistle in a bucket. Except this time we changed it to candle in a bucket. The objective was to blow the candle out. We had a lot of fun. For the last name Andy and I were the bucket defenders. We came up with a plan, well actually we cheated. Instead of hiding the bucket we circled around back to the cabin and went it to warm up while they were out searching for us. They were not too amused.

When it was time for bed Brady found his shelter to be wet and decided he didn't want to sleep outside. Adrian felt that it would be fine by adding an extra tarp. Since he really wanted to sleep outside I agreed to take Brady's place and I slept in the Snow Trench. I was dry as a bone and not one bit cold. I had a great nigjht sleep, well except for the aaches and pains from sleeping on the ground.

Breakfats was instamt oatmeal and once everyone was done eating we packed everything up and headed home. I was home by lunchtime. To view the pictures from the camp click on the image below.

Camp No'Chimik Feb 2009
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Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Canadian $1.00 Bill

Ok, so who remembers the Canadian $1.00 bill? Today at work I found out that two of my employees had no idea that there used to be a Canadian $1.00 bill. Talk about making me feel old. This is actually the second time this has happened to me. I encountered the same situation when I was in Kingston. Has it really been that long? They remember the $2.00 bill, but not the $1.00 bill. On the flip side the other night when I was playing poker with the guys they were talking about actors from yesteryear that I hadn't heard of. After they told me some of the roles they played I had an idea, but their names meant nothing to me. They were shocked and I guess I made them feel old.

Have you ever had a situation that really made you feel old?

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Jigsaw Puzzle



A little while before Christmas I suggested to Louisa that we buy a jigsaw puzzle and build it as a couple. It would be an activity that we can do together. She agreed that was a good idea. So for Christmas we each bought the other a jigsaw puzzle. So one Sunday night decided to give it a try. The first one we attempted is a 1000 piece puzzle of the Last Supper. Together we started with the border. We managed to get the border completed in an hour or so. That seemed like enough for the first day.

After that Louisa lost interest and I became addicted. I worked on that puzzle every night after work, and some mornings before work. I was able to finish the puzzle after just one week. I was so proud. I havn't worked on a jigsaw puzzle since I was a child. I had no idea it could be so fun. I have proudly used puzzle glue to keep my creation together and have mounted it on a piece of cardboard and will be proudly displaying it on the wall.

Do you like Jigsaw puzzles? When was the last time you did one?